Wait guys genuine question. Why do men not hold the door? Like guys actually stare straight at me and physically pull the door shut behind them. Am I actually that chopped.

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Comments (36)

That has never happened to me

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 6

The like close it on you ???? That’s so rude

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 11

i know what you are !

Anonymous Apr 20, 2026 ▲ 1

I hold the door for everyone :) Some people just suck and are lame

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 58

this is so true it’s scary 😭😭

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 20

I’m a hot guy I hold open doors

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 42

I'm chopped and I hold doors

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 9

I must be the 1% ugly population

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 0

I’ve noticed a pretty strong correlation with hot guys holding the door for you and ugly guys not

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 152

I don’t believe this shit

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1
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Most likely yes sorry

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▼ -4

idk i feel like i look behind to check if there’s anyone behind me to hold the door for… AND im from the north lol i think its just a manners thing in general

Anonymous Apr 20, 2026 ▲ 5

It’s an upbringing thing. Some men weren’t taught that that was important to do. But additionally, there’s a strong correlation between door-holding and being raised in the South. Southern hospitality is very real, and if you or your parents or their parents grew up with those values instilled in you, you’re much more likely than others to hold doors out of courtesy. The alternative idea is that there’s a chance the person just has their headphones in and is trying to get to their destination.

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 91

girl why is it scary do u like ugly men lol

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 5

thank u for ur service

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 23

bro 😭

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 0

correction: grad students haha

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 0

bro is NOT making this better for themselves 😭🙏

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 5

LMAO

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 4

I’m Indian myself and I can attest to the lack of respect and chivalry towards women. It’s not just Indians tho it’s p much all men from 3rd world countries.

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 18

incel rage

Anonymous Apr 20, 2026 ▲ 1

Sometimes if ur at that awkward distance you gotta close the door faster so that the door closes before u get there so that it isn’t like you should have held the door. Iykwim

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 17

I’ve BEEN saying this like WTF

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 4

just scary on the nose 😭 woah i do my part not liking uglies

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 9

literally i was deadass moving all my shit out today and this bum couldn’t hold it open

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1

It’s genuinely so shocking and like even women do it too. It takes maybe two extra seconds to hold the door for someone… I rlly don’t get it

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 24

i think most people hold the door if theyre aware and it isnt like an awkward distance. the awkward distance thing us rough tho

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1

it’s usually the 🇮🇳 guys

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▼ -3

I always open the door :D

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1

I hold the door

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1

I always hold the door and elevator🫡

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 1

it’s true! i’ve went to snell behind indian grad students and they open the door really small and let the door slam on me on purpose and this wasn’t only once

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 7

I hold the door for everyone and notice like 60% of the time people dont hold the door for you Lwk crazy

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▲ 11

Anonymous Apr 19, 2026 ▼ -2

maybe its a skill issue tbh

Anonymous Apr 20, 2026 ▲ 1

even worse… when a guy expects YOU to open the door for HIM

Anonymous Apr 20, 2026 ▲ 0