Got pretty drunk at a party but the guy I hooked up with blacked out and has no memory of us hooking up. Should I feel bad about it even tho he initiated it?
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Got pretty drunk at a party but the guy I hooked up with blacked out and has no memory of us hooking up. Should I feel bad about it even tho he initiated it?
If you were both drunk it’s fine. Accept it and move on
Reverse the gender roles and ask the question again
Yeah that’s why I’m worried about it if it was me who didn’t remember anything my friends would be coming for his head
u should prob talk about it with him
but i know a lot of people that handle their alcohol well and you literally cannot tell when they are blacked out bc they’re acting normal so just use ur judgement i guess
I would ask to have a conversation with him about it just because those things can really fuck with someone psychologically even if they act like they’re okay with it. I’ve been in his situation and I think I would have benefited from a little bit of dialogue so I could know exactly what went down, but all of the processing of that information is something he’s going to have to do on his own regardless. I wouldn’t tell you to feel bad but just be mindful and try to avoid being in (1/2)
situations like this in the future. (2/2)
i would talk to him about it and maybe apologize, like if he was like stumbling and unable to take care of himself it’s a little messed up